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How to Use a Double-Ended Dildo

Most dildos come with a start and an end: a sculpted head for insertion and a base for holding. But what if you could indulge in endless pleasure with a dildo that will never have a base or an end? That’s the double-ended dildo for you! This unique sex toy creation provides even more one-of-a-kind sensations. If we’ve got your attention, continue reading this guide on double-ended dildos and discover what sorts of pleasure pursuits you can achieve with these never-ending toys.   

What is a Double-Ended Dildo?

A regular dildo has a typical shape of a man’s penis and has a base, shaft, and, for some, balls at the base; there’s only one end that has the cock’s head and that’s the side that can be inserted inside you for internal pleasure. But, with a double dildo, there is no base like a typical dildo would have. Instead, both ends can be used for solo or couples play, making them completely versatile sex toys to expand your sexual experiences. These unique joysticks can be longer than the conventional dildo, and they’re often marketed for lesbian couples, but male-female or male-male partners can also add these double-ended dongs for their mutual pleasure.

But what’s so great about these double-ended dongs anyway? Besides the ability to give you incredible internal stimulation, they can be used for a variety of sex plays from anal to vaginal. You can use a flexible double dildo for simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration with yourself, or you and your lover can use the dildo for exciting bedroom play. If you’re using a double dildo on yourself, you get to experience the thrills of dual penetration. You can also use this toy to see how deep you can go since most double-ended dildos are 10-12 inches long or more. Some double dildos like the Doc Johnson Jr. Double Header 12 Inch Black Bender Dildo come in extra long lengths and bendable bodies so that you can comfortably insert the dildo in two love holes at the same time. Other dildos have two shafts that are placed on the same side to give each hole its own toy. The Wall Bangers Waterproof Double Penetrator Suction Cup Vibrator is a perfect example of this variation on the traditional double-ended dildo.

Doc Johnson Jr. Double Header 12 Inch Black Bender Dildo

For couples, using a double dildo in your usual sex routine makes your bedroom experience more intimate because you feel new and thrilling sensations that you can share with your partner. You can use this dildo for vaginal and/or anal play, and it doesn’t matter what your sexuality is – you can entertain yourself and give your lover plenty of sexual satisfaction with these one-of-a-kind sex toys.

How to Use a Double-Ended Dildo

To make it easier for you to use these double-ended dongs, we’ve created a simple guide here for you to refer to:

For Individuals: If you’re taking on a dual-penetrating dildo by yourself, you can use it in a variety of ways. With a single, elongated dildo, you can use it for deep anal or vaginal penetration or bend the dildo in the middle and insert both ends in your vagina or backdoor at the same time. You can tug and push the dildo in and out of your holes by controlling it from the center (the bent area).

For Couples: Double-ended dildos provide more variety for couples compared to using it by yourself. For lesbian couples, you can try vagina-vagina, anal-anal or anal-vagina penetration; for heterosexual couples, vagina-anal or anal-anal are options for you; and for gay couples, dual anal penetration is the best way to get all the pleasure you desire from a double-ended dildo.

When it comes to the position you should be in to comfortably use the dildo and have better control over it, there are two main positions you can try: doggy style (on all fours), sitting up and using your hands to thrust your body onto the toy or lying down and lifting your hips to push the toy in and out of your body. You and your partner can get into different positions as well. For example, one can be on all fours and one can lie down; the one on all fours and thrust the toy in and out of their partner who’s lying down. It will take some practice to get the right movements and rhythm with your partner, but it will definitely be worth the experience once you get the hang of it!

Make sure to lube up before you experiment with these dildos with your partner or by yourself, especially if you’re going to use the dildo for anal stimulation. Find lubricants and other necessities in our Sex Essentials Collection to have better sex with your adult toys or with your mate.  

Double Dildos for Singles

If you’re looking for something new for your personal collection of pleasure toys, we’ve selected specific kinds of double-ended dildos for you to enjoy. Check them out here:

Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand

This is a special type of double-ended dildo made of glass and features a different design compared to other dual-penetrating sex toys. The Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand has a bulbous end and a bubble end for added variety in stimulation. You can use this glass pleasure wand for anal or vaginal play. The sleek and firm glass provides a unique sensation that you won’t find with any other toy. Since this glass-made massage wand is from the official Fifty Shades of Grey line, this makes a wonderfully erotic present for the Fifty Shades of Grey fan in your life.

Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand

Real Feel Deluxe No.8 Dual-Probed Vibrating 7.5 Inch Suction Dildo

Fill your holes completely with the Real Feel Deluxe No. 8 Dual-Probed Vibrating Dildo! This ultra-thick and sensational double dildo has a realistic design with to give your experience more personal touch. Now you can excite two hot spots simultaneously and enjoy hands-free stimulation. The suction-cup base makes it easier for hands-free fun and lets you take the toy to various places, such as your kitchen or bathroom, so you can switch up your sex environment. This dildo also doubles as a vibrator so that you receive even more pleasure from this versatile and multi-talented toy.

Bendie Power Stud Over & Under Vibe

Silky smooth and colorful, the Bendie Power Stud Over & Under Vibe is similar to the previous dual-probed dildo. The Bendie Power Stud has a lifelike design on the main shaft, but not on the anal probe. The velvety smooth and soft material makes this dual pleasure wand extra comfortable to use. With the slim anal probe, you can feel more at ease with backdoor stimulation, especially if you’re new to it.

Bendie Power Stud Over & Under Vibe

Double Dildos for Couples

Interested in bringing a double-ended dildo home to your partner for naughty play tonight in the bedroom? Try one of these couple-friendly dildos:

Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies 12 Inch Realistic Double Dildo

Girthy and lengthy, the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies 12 Inch Realistic Double Dildo is the perfect dildo for two! With the dildo’s flexible body, you can comfortably adjust your position and the toy inside both you and your partner. The size itself is satisfying and allows you to see how deep you can go. You can use this Doc Johnson double-ended dong for your solo sessions, too.

Love Rider Strapless Strap-On Dildo

Strapless strap-on dildos are commonly marketed to lesbian couples, and these dildos are specially designed for women. Conventional strap-on dildos come with a harness that you wrap around your hips and thighs for a secure fit. But, with a strapless dildo, you can experience a more intimate lovemaking session with your partner. The Love rider Strapless Strap-On Dildo is a great example of these types of sex toys. One end has a bulb-like shape that is used to hold onto the toy with your vagina; some may use their butt to hold the dildo. Since you’re using your own body to hold the dildo in place instead of the usual straps, you can feel closer to your partner and fulfill their fantasies of vaginal or anal penetration; you can use the strapless dildo on a male or female partner. The Love Rider has a long shaft for deeper sensations.

Sex Tip: Strapless strap-on dildos require strong vaginal muscles to keep the toy in place and hold it while you thrust into your lover. To help you gain better sex muscles, take a look through our Kegel Health Toys Collection and try one of these sex toy essentials to give your vagina even more pleasure power.


Love Rider Strapless Strap-On Dildo

Real Skin Whoppers 18 Inch Double Dildo

To give your erotic lovemaking even more intimate, the Real Skin Whoppers 18 Inch Double Dildo is sure to fulfill your fantasies! Made to look and feel like the real thing, this super long double-ended dildo has a veiny body to deliver extra inner stimulation as you slide the dong in and out of you. The dildo is flexible and bends to your command for a more comfortable fit.

Real Skin Whoppers 18 Inch Double Dildo

If you liked our sex toy guide on Double-Ended Dildos, read our other buyers guides on various types of adult toys and add more sensational toys to your collection for all your pleasure needs.
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