Beginners Guide To Bondage & Kinky Toys

Feeling a little kinky tonight? If you want to expand your sexual horizons and experiment with other sex toys and accessories or you have naughty BDSM desires, explore the erotic world of bondage play with bondage gear! From Simpli Pleasure’s exclusive collection, we offer light and fun bondage toys and accessories for you to experiment with your partner; they’re your pass enter the realm of BDSM. Whether you’re looking for a simple bondage accessory like a blindfold or you want to go all out and create your own BDSM playground with restraints and sex furniture, you’ll find all you need here in this guide and in our online store.

Beginner Bondage

Lighten up your bondage play and start with a beginner bondage accessory or toy set! Our exclusive Beginner Bondage collection features more gentle bondage products that let you experience the thrills of bondage fun without being too aggressive. Whether you’re looking to be bound by handcuffs or heighten your sexual senses by masking your eyes with a blindfold, you can find a wide range of beginner-friendly bondage accessories and toys for your erotic, forbidden desires.

Featured Beginner Bondage Gear: Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps



Bondage Kits

Build your own bondage playground by getting the all-in-one bondage kit! Filled with naughty delights, these bondage toy and accessory sets give you the basics for all your light BDSM needs. Most kits come with a full system of restraints (cuffs and tethers) for versatile bondage play; some even include extras such as blindfolds, ticklers, and spankers. These kits also make great beginner bondage gear and conveniently give you fun tools and toys to use for extra bedroom excitement.

Featured Bondage Kit: Fifty Shades of Grey Submit to Me Beginners Bondage Kit 



Blindfolds, Masks & Gags

Heighten the sexual anticipation with a blindfold or eye mask! Designed from satiny and velvety soft material, these masks are comfortable to wear for long-term bondage or lovemaking sessions. By wearing a blindfold, you’ll be more sensitive to your partner’s every touch and move, making sexual excitement even better. If you want to get kinky while wearing a mask or just want to experiment with a bondage accessory, ball gags like the Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Solid Red Ball Gag help you silence your captive so that you can have your way with them. Some ball gags are better for beginners like the Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Breathable Ball Gag. You can also find gags that have a ring instead of a ball, such as the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O Ring Gag for naughty oral sex action while being bound.

Featured Blindfold: Fetish Fantasy Satin Blindfold



Chastity Devices

Cage your man’s member in a chastity device and tease him until you’re ready to let his naughty beast out! These BDSM sex accessories are designed like a cage to keep your prisoner’s hands away from their cock so that they can’t orgasm until you let them. Some of these cages have a lock on them or make it hard for your captive to release their penis, so you’re the one in charge, which is perfect for dominatrix-type play. For a more mild form of a male BDSM accessory, you can find cock rings such as the Adjustable 3 Snap Cock Strap or the 3 Piece Cock and Ball Divider.

Featured Chastity Device: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Chastity Belt and Cock Cage

Fetish Fantasy Extreme Chastity Belt and Cock Cage


Electro Sex Toys

Shock your sexual senses while engaging in naughty deeds with electro sex toys! Safe to use on your or your partner’s body, these toys have a different kind of tingle than a vibrator. You’ll feel electrifying and sensual shocks that will enhance your personal pleasure. You can use these sex toys to create extra exhilarating sensations during BDSM play.

Featured Electro Sex Toy: Zeus Electrosex Bi Polar Silicone
Erection Rings



Handcuffs & Restraints

They’re the basic of all bondage play, and they’re a must-have in your collection if you want to do BDSM the right way! Cuffs are the ultimate restraints to use for your fetish desires. You can keep your prisoner of love under control and make them your sex slave for the night. From the classic metal handcuffs to bondage tape and silk ropes, discover the wonders of restraints and bring more variety to the bedroom with a diversity of these bondage accessories.

Featured Restraints: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System


Nipple & Clitoral Toys

Love having your nipples or clitoris stimulated, but want to take it to another level of pleasure? Nipple and clitoral toys are simple and effective tools to use to intensify those irresistible sensations. For your nipples, add nipple clamps to add a touch of pain with immense pleasure to your BDSM accessory box; you can wear these while you’re playing out your wild fantasies with your partner or even wear them when you’re just relaxing in your home. If you prefer a nipple-stimulating tool that makes your nipples extra sensitive to every lick and touch, try a nipple enhancer like the Cal Exotics Nipple Suction Bulb. If you want to arouse your clitoris and nipples simultaneously, wear non-piercing body jewelry for these sweet spots such as the Nipple and Clitoral Body Jewelry in Ruby. Want to make your lady's most sensitive pleasure zone even more receptive to your teasing? Use a pussy pump like the Fetish Fantasy Pussy Pump on your naughty prisoner! Pussy pumps increase the blood flow to the vagina, which makes it extra sensitive and excited.

Featured Nipple Toy: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Deluxe Ball Gag and Nipple Clamps



Sex Furniture

Transform your home into an erotic amusement park with sex furniture! These furniture pieces are fun and easy to use for your everyday sex routine with your partner. You can use them to try different positions to see what turns you on or make your favorite positions more comfortable and pleasurable for you and your lover. You can even use sex furniture to switch up your environment; e.g., enjoying no-slip shower sex with the Sportsheets Dual Locking Suction Handle and the Sportsheets Single Locking Suction Foot Rest. For a sex furniture addition to your home with a BDSM edge, try the Inflatable Bondage Chair and the Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Leather Door Cuffs.

Featured Sex Furniture: Position Master Inflatable Sex Pillow
With Handles

Position Master Inflatable Sex Pillow With Handles


Sex Swings & Machines

Elevate your sexual experiences with an exciting sex swing! Versatile and entertaining, sex swings give you the option to experiment with various sex positions or make your favorite moves even more thrilling and satisfying. Some sex swings can be placed over the top of a door like the Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit, so you can make every door your naughty spot. They’re also travel-friendly compared to other sex swings and can be packed away in your suitcase for erotic adventures anywhere you go! Other sex swings are designed to attached securely to the ceiling. Perfect for bondage play, these nifty sex tools typically have ropes and cuffs to keep your captive in place for endless teasing and pleasing. Some sex swings even come with bondage kits like our Featured Sex Swing bellow.

If you’re looking for a sex toy that you can use on your partner while you hold them as your prisoner for the night, try a sex machine like the Fetish Fantasy International Portable Sex Machine Bundle, which comes with a bundle of adult toys you can experiment with your mate. Tie up your partner with restraints, and let the sex machine do the work of pleasing them against their will!

Featured Sex Swing: Spinning Sex Swing + BDSM Beginners Kit

Spinning Sex Swing + BDSM Beginners Kit


Spankers, Ticklers & Whips

Control your captive as you like with a spanker or whip! These BDSM accessories deliver an exhilarating sting, giving you a mix of pain and pleasure. Perfect for making your fetish fantasies a reality, spankers and whips are available in different designs, including floggers, crops, and spanking paddle, to suit your preferences. For a gentler way to enjoy BDSM play, explore your lover’s body and sweet spots with a tickler like the Sportsheets Ostrich Feather.

Featured Whip: LELO Sensua Suede Whip

LELO Sensua Suede Whip

Want to explore more sexual fun with your partner? Check out our Sex Toy Guides for more detailed information on the wide array of intimate products available for you to try!

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